Today, I am here to tell you just in case nobody else has told you that “You Matter”! If you’re reading this and that statement resonates with you then this message is for you.
Yes “You Matter”! Yes, I’ll say it again, “You Matter”!
My mission is to spread the word that “You Matter”! To empower you with coping skills, strategies to make the changes and achieve the results you want in life and a mindset that will take you to where you want to be.
To enable you to show up in life 110 %+, to gain confidence and belief to follow your dreams. Whilst developing a resilient mindset whereby you’ll treat life’s challenges as only obstacles to be navigated around or stood upon because you matter, you’re mindset matters, you’re unique skills and abilities matter.
I believed for many years that I didn’t matter, it was so clever in how it disguised itself and how it touched and affected areas of my life, as it held me in a stuck state for years and blocked me from taking up opportunities. It played a huge part in how I valued myself and in what I was prepared to tolerate and accept in specific areas of my life.
It’s my belief that at the core of each and everyone one of us, we have a unique message to share.
All we really want is to matter and make a difference either in our personal or professional lives.
Are you fed up with a life situation, lacking confidence, feeling that you’re not good enough? Are you tired of being passed over for promotions or dreaming of starting your own business but don’t know what to do next?
Well, firstly let’s pause you’re self-doubt because at this very moment you can do a 360 degree turn on your present set of circumstances.
Like me, you too can rewrite and reframe your story the way you want it to be because you matter and your story matters!
As human beings were not designed to hide or be hidden from life. We’re designed to connect and share with others because we matter and our message matters. But it’s our responsibility as individual’s to listen to our hearts, to uncover our purpose and not to hide or deny the signals we receive through our intuition or our gut feelings.
I believe that when we choose to ignore the signals. We hide and deny our true-selves from showing up in life.
My question for you today is, are you showing up in life 110%+ or are you really hiding, avoiding and postponing doing the things you really want to do?
Out of a sense of fear, judgment, comparison or lack of self-belief.
One way to find out if you’re hiding from life is to have a look at some of the following scenarios and see if you can recognize yourself in any of them:
- You’re negative self talk, talks you out of taking action on doing the things you really want to do.
- You’re always quiet and stay in the background in different social settings.
- You stop yourself from voicing yours views out of a fear of judgment from others.
- You’re part of an audience and you stop yourself from raising your hand to ask a question because you don’t feel comfortable with all the attention turning on you.
- You stop yourself from starting a course or upskilling or starting your own business.
How many times a day unbe-knowns to yourself do you make choices or take actions that demonstrate YOU DON’T MATTER?
Each time you suppress, deny you’re voice, ideas and “YOU”, you are hiding from life.
I know for a fact that you would not suppress or deny anyone else the opportunity of sharing their ideas and showing up their life.
Now it’s time for you to take a moment to tell yourself “You Matter” to share and show up with all you’re great stuff.
Whilst people or a set of circumstances may have left you with a valid reason as to why you felt that you didn’t matter.
What’s important is what actions you take from NOW on…
What one action can you take today that would make “You Matter”?
I’ve created Project You! (The You Matter Project) it’s from my life experiences and what I’ve learnt so far. A simple set of principles, I now live by which has given me peace, courage and happiness. I would love to share them with you.
Project You! (TYMP) provides a safe confidential space to share your stories and to have real conversations, real solutions and real results. If you’re interested in Project You! (The“You Matter”Project) or attending my talk or want to book a consultation just drop me an email to firstname.lastname@example.org or contact me through my website www.jacquitaaffe.com.
See what you discover for yourself!
You’re unique message matters!
You’re mindset matters!
Author – Jacqui Taaffe